Hi Ian.....For some reason my Cap i's look like an l .
Anyway..this is the first time I saw this post and my heart goes out to you and your wife.Hubby and I went through the same thing 2 years ago. He was a JW though. He had always been so healthy but one day he turned yellow.
He was tired a lot and had pain under his right rib.
When I saw how yellow he was I took him to the emergency room.They gave us the news on 9-11-03..He only had 9 month to live..Lung cancer that had spread to his liver.The bad part about liver cancer is nothing can help it. Most chemo is processed through the liver. They could give him chemo but it was only to help the pain and maybe give him another 3 months making it one year!. He had it for 6 weeks and they did another scan.They had shrunk the lung tumor but the liver was full...now it was 6 months..well all he would do is read the bible and pray.
He had the most aggresive cancer there was.
They told him to eat whatever he could as he was losing 5 pounds a day.His JW mother and sister told him Noni juice would cure him. So he gussled that down to the tune of $1,000. a month.He was getting so full from that he wouldn't eat. He only lasted until Feb. A lot shorter then they said. I think it was because he heard the word cancer and gave up.
You are doing wonderful! You are looking into alternatives that hubby didn't have time to do. You are fighting the odds. I think if you can make it to a certain stage the cancer gives up.I heard Cancer is a virus and we know they can suddenly disappear!
So just take one day at a time and do your excercises that strengthen you.Each day you are showing them you won't be beat. You must have an amazing wife . It sounds like she is helping you take good care of yourself. I hope you tell her how much she is appreciated!
I know what she is going through too! She feels your pain the same as you...If you have any trouble eating the veggies maybe you could put them in a juicer... Grind those suckers up! Maybe the raw ones are too hard on your stomach if your stomach is hurting...
I made hubby home made chicken vegtable soup. He loved that and it gave him strength..He also had a nutritional drink that the cancer society gave him for free. It was called Boost. Don't know if it is available there. But it helps to keep the weight on.
I hope your next visit is a good one..and they get rid of that tummy ache for you!
Best wishes and I am sending strength to you and wifey..
And a cake for the anniversary..
Big hugs..Snoozy..who was also given many words of strength and love by the people here when hubby was so sick!